I recently might of learned the difference from dating in my teen years verse dating in my adult years. I’m only 23 so I’m still young but I have noticed a difference. When I was a teenager I would sit on the phone constantly with (whoever I was interested in). I felt the constant texting or talking on the phone was a big part of him showing me he liked me. If he went without contacting me for a while either I would get upset or texted him saying something like “I guess your not interested anymore”. Sometimes I would be right but as I grow up I realized sometimes I was just plain wrong. At 23 some of the guys I am interested in are 2 to 4 years older than me with careers. They don’t text as much or even talk on the phone. So it leaves me wondering are they even interested. I came to realize at this age when a guy isn’t interested he will just tell you. You don’t need the constant texting or calling. Yeah, some guys will lead you on but got the most part they will be upfront if they are mature enough. I still catch myself wondering why he doesn’t text or call enough but then I finally figured it out. Guess what he is not a little boy, he is a grown man who actually has to work. If you treat him like a grown man it will work because he will also see you as a grown woman who is confident and sure of herself. He will just be a plus to your life. At 23 as crazy as it sounds sometimes you still think like a teen but once you let those thoughts go. You might actually enter into your first real adult relationship that actions will speak louder than words.
aceunibomber06 said: Is your name Akua and if so are both your parents Ghanian?
Yes I’m Ghanaian and yes both parents are too but my mom is half black